Most men when approaching mid life begin to experience mild issues getting an erection. This is called erectile dysfunction and while some can be resolved medically others may not because they are caused by some habits or lifestyle.
So you found out your husband is having a sizzling affair with a lady who is not as hot as you and you wonder why.
Let your partner know what works for you and what doesn’t. An open attitude towards sex should also relax you more and lessen the nerves that cause a swift ejaculation.
Take it from me nothing good comes easy, though your sexuality is a free gift from God, learning how to use it is your responsibility, just like your legs; God gave them to you but your parents taught you how to use them.
Some erstwhile faithful wives have become perpetual cheats because someone introduced them to a level of sexual intercourse she never knew existed with you.
So why do ladies abort? Since it takes two to tangle I don’t think it is wise to trade blames. But these ladies most times with their hearts in their mouths go through such experiences and I dare say over and over again.
I met this guy at work and being highly educated (something that is rare where I come from) I got a good job and presently I have access to the who is who in the society.
We resorted to having an abortion to save us from the shame and possible cancellation of our white wedding.