Ginger for Single Moms

So you are a single mom and you have to shoulder the responsibilities meant for two people alone. And sometimes it feels you are so alone with so much weight on you.

Then you become bitter, angry and easily irritated and might even take it out on your kids, then you feel guilty, you apologize and explain that mummy is just going through some tough times and the next minute you snap at them again.

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Give yourself a break Mom you are doing a super human job even though you may not feel that way.

Then you try to hang out with your friends most of whom are married now and they act so insecure around you making you feel you are gonna steal their husbands the moment they turn their backs.

 

Then you opt for the single ladies and you get the feeling they think you are not on their level  any more with all your single mommy duties [this is especially if you have never been married and merely just had a child out of wedlock]. I mean your life totally changes with a child and you expect them to understand.

Then the guys that coming around think you are vulnerable and desperate and try to take advantage.

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At this point you need to pause and rethink what you are doing; agreed your life has changed but that doesn’t make you a hybrid or outcast, it just simply means the direction to your goals has change so your mental processes has to be reset.

First accept where you are and face squarely what you have to do and believe God to guide and hold you up when you need it the most.

 

Meanwhile, remember you are still a complete human being with a clear purpose and destiny and remember not to let go of your dreams even as you take up the super job of a single mom.

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