Why Some Men Don’t Last Long in Bed

Don’t be deceived Man is a sexual being; God made it so, by man I mean both male and female. So that your wife hardly initiates sex and doesn’t complain doesn’t mean she is satisfied.

Some erstwhile faithful wives have become perpetual cheats because someone introduced them to a level of sexual intercourse she never knew existed with you.

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So it behoves you not to just mount, cum and get off her each time you need to take this to the next level. I dare say this is the major reason sex becomes boring after a while for most men. There is nor creativity or thought in it.

Ideally sex is supposed to last between 10 – 25 minutes but how many men can pull that off. Forget about those porn stars that are high on drugs.

 

Here are some reasons men don’t last long in bed

1. PE ( Premature Ejaculation)

This is a very common problem one which affects most men at some point. Usually PE involves sex lasting less than two minutes before the man ejaculates. However, if both parties are happy and fulfilled then there is nothing to worry about.

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Types of Premature Ejaculation

1. Primary PE is often psychological, and starts when the man first becomes sexually active. It can then remain a lifelong issue.
2.  Secondary PE occurs later in life and can be caused by both psychological and physical factors. Stress, anxiety, depression are all possible causes. For some men, premature ejaculation is a recurring problem

 

Treatment for Premature Ejaculation

2. Priligy. A prescription tablet which delays the chemical reactions that causes ejaculation. Taken orally, it has been shown to be very effective. .

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2. EMLA. A cream applied to the penis to desensitize nerve endings which are part of the ejaculation process. Although unlicensed as treatment for PE, EMLA is commonly prescribed and used with much success. Wash it off afterwards.

1. Change in behaviors that help a man ‘unlearn’ the habit of premature ejaculation. Such techniques are most likely to produce permanent results.

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Please note that premature ejaculation is often psychological. So talking to a doctor can be helpful.

…to be continued